Everyday thing that we may not realize...

Don't lose that 90% you already have....

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have.

"Wow, this girl in my office is a real looker. I'm crazy about her because she's also understanding, intelligent, tender - so many things that my spouse is not."

Somewhere along the way, you'll find a woman or a man who will be more charming or sensitive. More alluring. More thoughtful. Richer. Have greater sex appeal. And you will find a woman or man who will need you and pursue you and go loco over you more than your spouse ever did.

Because no wife or husband is perfect. Because a spouse will only have 90 of what you're looking for. So adultery takes place when a husband or wife looks for the missing 10%.

Let's say your wife is melancholic by nature. You may find yourself drawn to the pretty clerk who has a cherry laughter. Or because your wife is a homebody in slippers and pyjamas, smelling of garlic and fish oil, you may fall for a fresh-smelling young sales representative that visits your office in a sharp black blazer, high heels, and a red pencil-cut skirt.

Or because your husband is the quiet type, your heart may skip a beat when you meet an old college flame who has the makings of a talk show host.

But wait! That's only 10% of what you don't have. Don't throw away the 90% that you already have! Add to your spouse's 90% the 100% that represents all the years that you have been with each other.

The storms you have weathered together. The unforgettable moments of sadness and joy as a couple. The many adjustments you have made to love the other. The wealth of memories that you've accumulated as lovers.

Adultery happens when you start looking for what you don't have. But faithfulness happens when you start thanking for what you already have.

story 1
girl: do you miss me??
boy: duh! of course not...
girl: *sad look*
boy: how can i miss you when you have always been in my heart?
girl: *heart melted*

story 2
girl: *pointing to a movie poster* i want to watch that movie!!
boy: no, you cant!
girl: huh? why not?? *feeling disappointed*
boy: cuz we are going to watch that movie.
girl: *blushing look*
boy: from now on, theres no i ok? only we...
girl: ok! *hug the boy's arm tightly, smilling brightly*

story 3
before entering a crowded mall...
boy: lemme your hand
girl: why?
boy: *grasp girl's hand* cuz i dont wanna lose you in the crowd.
girl: *sheepish smile*

story 4
boy: baby, do you have a band-aid?
girl: yeah. what do you need it for?
boy: cuz i hurt myself when i fall for you...
girl: *kiddish smile*

story 5
girl: they say angels live in heaven.
boy: really? i must be in heaven then.
girl: huh? how come?
boy: cuz girl, you are my angel.
girl: eeyyeer... *blushing*

story 6
after an argument...
girl: im sorry for wad had happened.
boy: dont apologise anymore...
girl: but im really sorry...
boy: its okay.
girl: sorry dear...
boy: ok, no more sorry for you.
the next time you say sorry again,
you owe me a kiss.
girl: *slowly smiling* eeyyeer! naughty boy...
boy: so previously i counted you said 3 sorry.
so you owed me 3 kisses!
girl: eee!! not fair *kiddish smile*

its reasons like these people keep trying to fall in love...

1. Desktop
2. Job
3. Shopping sprees
4. Dresses
5. New hairstyle
6. Paint my room
7. make-over for my room

bahh..
i wan i wan i wan!!
*throw tantrum! stomp feet!*
haha..
still small leh~

*yawns*
i'm hungry now!!
ahhh..!
gotta cook my own lunchie..
and i'm fat man!!
fat arse~
haha..

*missing u*

While waiting for yan

e four of us!

me n darling (wit my BLING BLING!)